Sunday, April 18, 2010

Settling In


Well, we have been in our temporary home for one week now and things couldn't be going better. I just hope our gracious hosts feel the same way. They have made living here way too easy... we just may never leave. ;)

Shae and Rocky have both adjusted pretty well. They've both been enjoying the beautiful weather in the backyard. Rocky has made himself right at home, never feeling the need to mind his manners or be polite. My one worry with Shae was that he started showing some pretty strong separation anxiety. He started showing signs of this over the past couple of weeks, but it definitely got worse this week. I know that part of it is his age, but after doing a little research on the topic, I found that moving to a new place is a common trigger of this anxiety. Which makes sense. Shae doesn't understand what's going on, but his environment has all of a sudden completely changed. It got to the point this week that I sometimes couldn't even walk out of the room for a minute without him getting really upset. Poor little man. I feel bad that we're going to uproot him again in a couple of months.

Rocky enjoys the extra room around the highchair now and waits patiently for morsels to drop.

"Oooh, Mommy, let me see that camera!"

And our exciting house news of week: the foundation has been poured and our new home is well underway! Hooray! It's looking like a July closing date... hopefully.

Hard to believe we'll be living here in just a matter of weeks

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Farewell, Float Court

The time has come to say good bye to our first home. Of course we're delighted to be moving on to something better... more space, a yard, a garage we can actually open our car doors in, and... STORAGE!!! This excites me beyond belief.

But saying farewell to Float Court feels a little bittersweet. This place holds so many amazing memories. We purchased this first home of ours in the summer of 2005 as Joseph Stanton and Alison Wilhelm, and just a few short months later, we started our lives together here as Mr. and Mrs. Stanton. It's in this house that I've learned what it means to be married, a soulmate, a partner in life.


Before we knew it, our family grew as we brought 1 1/2 year old Rocky home from the Humane Society. I don't think either of us will ever forget introducing Rocky to his new home and playing with him in the living room that first night. This place does indeed hold many Rocky memories. Running through the screen door, his first (and probably last) taste of champaign on our first wedding anniversary, the countless chewed up objects, and his arch nemesis, Buddy the Birdie who visits the pond out back every summer. It's in this house that I've learned how to be (somewhat) patient with an overactive, stubborn canine.

Rocky, how did this slipper get here?

That overactive, stubborn canine was by Joe's side (literally) for a year and a half as he wrote his first novel. From laying out ideas, to weaving them all together, Rocky and I witnessed Joe accomplish something huge. I'll never forget when Joe walked upstairs after typing those last words, looking so proud (and tired). We celebrated with champaign once more, but this time Rocky passed. It's in this house that I've learned how to be a supportive wife. And it's in this house that I've learned what an ambitious and talented husband I truly have.

Writing by hand out on the deck

And then there was the big one: Mr. Shae Dallas. I've never had such an indescribable feeling as I did when we read that positive pregnancy test, and I'll always remember exactly where Joe and I stood hugging and crying when we read it. This place holds a lot of exciting pregnancy memories, right down to the end when we timed the contractions in disbelief that the time was actually here. And there have been so many firsts for Shae in this house! First smile, first coo, first time rolling over, first tooth, first time saying Obama. It's in this house that I've learned what it means to be a mommy. It's in this house that I've learned unconditional love.

Shae's first bedroom

Playing in his crib

Future blackmail picture

Peek-a-boo!


Good bye Float Court! Thanks for the memories. The memories may have taken place in this house, but they live in our minds, and they're most definitely coming with us!


And so now we move on to the next chapter, where there will undoubtably be even more firsts and magical memories!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Happy Easter!


Okay, so I use the term "happy" loosely. Shae had kind of a rough first Easter. This poor little guy just can't get a break from the teething. He'd been doing great for the past couple of weeks and then he woke up on Easter morning feeling just miserable again. This pattern has been going on for months and it is absolutely heartbreaking and exhausting to see him like this. We even brought him in to the doctor about a month ago, thinking maybe there was something more going on. But Shae's pediatrician confirmed that it appears to be just teething and that those pesky little teeth are indeed giving Shae an exceptionally hard time.

But although Shae wasn't quite himself, we still enjoyed getting out for the day and visiting family. We started with lunch at Joe's Aunt Honey's place. This proved to be Shae's hardest part of the day so unfortunately, we couldn't stay long. We then mosied on down to the farm in Jordan and spent some time with my mom, step-dad, and siblings. Shae had his ups and downs there as well, but I tried to catch his happy moments on camera.

Hangin with Grandma

Sneaking in a snuggle with Uncle Andrew

Jumping on the trampoline!

Ripping up some tissue paper with Auntie Kimberly

Looking handsome with Daddy

Mommy sneaking on the other side of the camera

We hope that everyone had a fantastic Easter, spending time with family and friends!

Thursday, April 1, 2010

First Word?

Sure he's quacked and said "gaga" but I'm talking about a real word here. While working on saying "mama," out it came, clear as day: "Obama."

Now that's impressive.